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We Are Already Here – By Kendra and Jaida
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KENDRA TRIBLET
March 29th 2021 | Written by: Daniel Blanc
A quote that makes me think of you...
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” – Maya Angelou
Kendra was born and raised in Jamaica Queens, where she grew up learning the value of education. Lessons that transcended the physical partitions of any learning facility. This was so much a part of her early childhood that Kendra was in love with the concept of teaching as well; language ultimately being the vehicle by which information is shared and synthesized. “I loved school,” Kendra exclaimed. “Whether it was poetry, or a research paper, I wanted to write it! I began performing spoken word during my undergraduate years at Hunter College, where I studied history and anthropology.” This ultimately, and even poignantly, formulated an interest in Kendra in heavy subjects such as millennialism and education which started to become the subject of some of her writings. Little did Kendra know at the time how much more her horizons would continue to broaden; here is how she describes it in her own words.
“After graduating, I discovered my other great love, [traveling]. I studied in Kassel, Germany and taught English in Berlin, Germany. After a year, I returned to New York to teach elementary school children for two more years. In 2019, I also published a poetry anthology with my sister Jaida, entitled We Are Already Here. I have since returned to Germany to pursue my master’s in history and economics with future plans of working in data management for an educational non-profit. My hobbies include writing poetry, creating Youtube Videos and visiting museums and art exhibitions.”
Kendra’s love for teaching and poetry took root from an early age and flourished as interacted with students and worked in various locations. This in term also had an impact to a degree on her writing. Kendra and her sister Jaida Co-authored an anthology called “We Are Already Here,” where many prevalent issues such as “Blackness,” “Womanhood,” and “world experiences” is spoken about in their pieces. Indeed, these topics are heavy because of the environment we live in today, but it has always been hot topic that young black women face every single day. One video on Kendra’s channel called ” being black in Germany ” (Which surmounted 23,000 number of views on Youtube as of March 28th) delineates one instance how challenges young black women face in various locations in the world. Kendra’s youtube channel is filled with amazing advice and experiences she had both living and teaching in countries; you can check out her writing and her channel by clicking the hyperlink at beginning of this article. Many of these nuances interactions and experiences are not uncommon or unusual; Kendra endeavors to create an open dialogue in her video and writing where other people like herself can begin to relate an feel comfortable sharing their own experiences. At the same time, as double entendre, provides a glimpse for people of different demographics to see things from a different perspective. Furthermore, this enables Kendra to have a deeper reflection on her day to day experiences and internalizing the things that has led her to the point she is currently in her life.
“Over the last few years as I have come into adulthood, I have been working on building a closer relationship with myself and becoming more introspective. I believe this relationship building has contributed to how I handle stress and difficult moments in my life. Although I had already committed myself to being highly aware of and addressing my emotions, I wasn’t always sure what to do with that hyper-awareness. In therapy, I learned to affirm those emotions that I feel in times of tribulation, practice mindfulness to regulate those emotions and more forward logically afterwards. Through practices such as journaling and mediation, I am able to actually center myself and approach my problems more calmly and in a level-headed manner. After I’ve taken the time to slow down and address the root of the problem, I can begin solving it. It also helps that I surround myself with optimistic and emotionally-intelligent individuals that encourage this journey.”
Ultimately, everything boils down to that lesson that Kendra was taught since her childhood, the value of education. The more she learns, the more determined she is to share and inform. In many ways, Kendra’s work has opened avenues for deep discussion regarding the treatment of race and identity in different societies. I personally felt very inspired by Kendra, leaving home and pursuing her dreams abroad. I recall the nervousness I felt studying abroad in Barcelona for a summer program, so nevertheless, this takes courage, passion, and a strong focus on a goal. Kendra is an example for all that your aspirations in life are only limited by the constraints we ourselves place on those things.
Responses from Kendra
What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think of “Equity” and why?
“I am an avid social media user, so the first thing I think about is a drawing I saw on social media that depicts three people of different heights trying to see over a fence to watch a baseball game. Each person is able to see over the fence because they have a box to stand on that gives them the perfect amount of extra height to see the game. Equity to me evokes thoughts of everyone not only having access to the same opportunities but also everyone being given the necessary aid to overcome whatever it is that hinders them from attaining what may come easily to those who are more privileged. Most recently, equity makes me think of the children of NYC who have been failed by the education system, BIPOC who have been tormented by figures of authority, and women fighting to be protected and respected as individuals.” – Kendra
Has there ever been a point in your life where you felt you had to prove yourself, or work harder than those around you? How did you tackle that event?
“I attended a NYC specialized high school and that was probably the first time I’ve ever felt imposter syndrome. I went to school with kids who had been studying for the SHSAT for years with private tutors, meanwhile I had only taken a free weekend class at my middle school. Most of my friends didn’t get accepted. I barely made the cut. All four years, I was faced with the realization that I was never going to feel like I belonged. I even had someone accusingly ask how I had gotten into the school. I felt discouraged a lot of the time because I felt that I was never going to be seen as an equal to my 99 GPA, privately tutored peers. It wasn’t until I started attending free SAT classes and college information sessions that I began to feel empowered and entitled to exist in spaces where I was underrepresented as a black woman.” – Kendra
Women honestly deserves more than just a day or month out of the whole year to receive recognition, love and support. In what ways do you believe society can perpetually and proactively acknowledge and encourage women?
“A lot of people think that the answer to such a question would be complicated but for me, it’s the same answer that I gave to a white friend who asked what she could do to support the black plight: listen. Listen to women. Believe women. Give women a space to speak. We are often relegated to suppressing our thoughts, feelings and experiences for fear of occupying too much space and being vilified for being truthful. Listening validates our truths, believing us offers space for practical solutions and giving us space empowers us to see that the change we need to become equals in society are enacted.” – Kendra
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